Take a moment to think of the one thing that’s causing you the most stress in your life. Got it? Come on, pause and think for a moment, what is it? Ok, so now take another moment and decide what do you ”Wish” was happening instead of this stressful situation or circumstance? Aren’t you wishing something were different? Aren’t you wishing something would just go away so you don’t have to deal with it?
The difference between what is actually happening in your life (current reality) and how you Wish it was is the “Wish Gap”. Another name for the Wish Gap is Stress. Yes that’s right, every trace of stress in your life is a result of Wishing things were different than they are. That’s it.
The harder we struggle against “what is”, the more stress we experience. Of course we … Read More »
“In your whole life nobody has ever abused you more than you have abused yourself. And the limit of your self-abuse is exactly the limit that you will tolerate from someone else. If someone abuses you a little more than you abuse yourself, you will probably walk away from that person. But if someone abuses you a little less than you abuse yourself, you will probably stay in the relationship and tolerate it endlessly.
If you abuse yourself very badly, you can even tolerate someone who beats you up, humiliates you, and treats you like dirt. Why? Because in your belief system you say, “I deserve it. This person is doing me a favor by being with me. I’m not worthy of love and respect. I am not good enough.”
We have the need to be accepted and to be loved by … Read More »
“When we truly understand that the tribe doesn’t give a damn, we’re free. There is no tribe, and there never was. Our lives are entirely up to us.” – Steven Pressfield from “Turning Pro”
“Success is very largely a matter of adjusting one’s self to the ever-varying and changing environments of life, in a spirit of harmony and poise.” – Napoleon Hill
“We deepen our struggle the more we are resistant to accepting what is.” –